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Don’t take advice from someone whose life you don’t want.
That’s a simple rule I live by.
But it’s not always easy to follow.
We live in an information age, where anyone can share their opinions, insights, and tips on social media, blogs, podcasts, and more.
Some of this information is valuable and helpful.
But some of it is misleading, biased, or downright harmful.
How do you tell the difference?
Filter information based on the architect of the message.
Who is the person behind the words?
What are their credentials, experiences, and achievements?
What are their values, goals, and motivations?
Do they have a track record of success in the area they are advising on?
Do they have a lifestyle that aligns with your vision and aspirations?
Do they have a reputation that inspires trust and respect?
If you can answer yes to these questions, then you can consider their advice as valid and useful.
But if you can’t, then you should be skeptical and cautious.
Don’t let someone else’s opinions influence your decisions and actions, especially if they don’t have the results or the lifestyle that you want.
You are the architect of your own life.
You get to choose who you listen to, who you learn from, and who you follow.
Choose wisely.
This makes me think of “oversocialization” and the fact mass media exposes all of us to irrelevant issues that are beyond our control, causing needless feelings of fear, obligation, and guilt while solving nothing.